Saturday, November 17, 2018


Well, despite offline responsibilities trying to keep me away I managed to make it here just in time for Day 2.

So without time to waste, please, please come in.
Welcome to Love Our Lurkers  XIII. Come in come in; grab some drinks, grab a seat, you Sir just watch her seat, say hello to the others, don't be shy, yes, yes don't worry Young Lady you won't be alone, all the ladies here are interested in the same just as well, have a drink first it'll take the edge off. Look around everyone is smiling, everyone is friendly, take your coat off Sir, take your dress off Young Lady, you have nothing to  worry about I'll be gentle, patience Sir, you'll get your turn. Come in come in; join the festivities, but first answer accordingly below.

If you are frequent visitor here, I want to say Thank You. Thank you for coming by and listening. Yes listening, that is how I see it. One of the reasons I write here is as an outlet. As I have mentioned in various previous posts, I write as an escape to the stresses and pressures of this life. Stresses which perhaps are not much different than those in your life. Forced to deal with added outside and ongoing pressures on everything, from the mundane tasks required of existence in the big city, to the seemingly unbearable pressure of heartache in one form or another. I hope my posts have served you well over the years.

If you Comment, I owe you Extra Gratitude, for hearing a voice is a gift especially when it is a like-minded voice. It takes a lot of courage to come through the internet shadow and comment especially on a topic, a lifestyle, a fetish (call it what you will; however you name it, it is more often than not misunderstood - at least in my experiences).

So my question for my frequent visitors; why do you keep coming back? What draws you back here; what about what I write resonates with you? Do you have a favorite story here? A favorite scene? Something about the tales here that are unique? 
Or is it none of that - but simply that this is another place to read spanking stories and similar subjects, or  that there are limited choices out there and this is merely an option?

For those of you who are new here or new to commenting here; foremost – Welcome! and thus the reason why Love Our Lurkers was created: To invite all those who merely lurk to say “hello”. 

I would be interested in hearing general demographics of those who lurk would be interested in sharing. I have so many questions for you: who you are, what type of relationships are you in, your age range, etc. I wonder if you practice spanking or merely are unknowingly drawn to it over and over. I have an idea of who my readership is and what they are drawn to here (i.e. mostly females fond of Domestic Discipline stories), but who knows I may be totally off. I don’t expect readers to divulge personal information, no pressure; a simple hello and how often you visit would be just as welcome.


If you are new here you may consider reading this previously written explanation of my Everyday Voice much better than any current attempt:

Welcome to this wonderful place that looks, sounds, feels and smells like our own everyday world, but with some distinct differences. A place where adult girls who shun their responsibilities, are made to pay for their offenses, where their entitled or arrogant attitudes are checked often and their bottoms are the primary focus of their penance.  

Not only is this a place of disciplining young ladies in various clever and embarrassing ways, but a place to just admire and be in awe of the female creature in all her inner,
outer and spiritual beauty; all in an everyday context.


This is also a place to see and hear of girls flushed to all cheeks with embarrassment. Where short skirts and sheer dresses turn on their owners much to their dismay; but to the welcomed entertainment and joy of those fortunate to witness such beauty.
But, please don't ever confuse this place as somewhere where women are meant to be disrespected or degraded. These stories are a blend of fantasy and reality. Non-consensual discipline is for the young ladies who deep down secretly crave it; not something done out of duty or out of a lopsided abusive relationship. 

 However, discipline here is seldom random and never unwarranted. Well administered spankings are fully justified. The young ladies may not be willing participants, but that is the fantasy aspect right? I don't think every story needs to have a "disclaimer" paragraph at the end that explains that those involved were secretly planning and consenting all along as so many authors choose to include. For me that merely spoils the entire story. 
I hope you enjoy what you find here and come back often and say hello when you do.

All the best,


  1. Hi Enzo, happy LOL days! I love reading! I do comment, mostly!
    It is interesting to read how women write stories vs men!
    Love it all!

  2. Enzo:

    I always come in whenever you post and enjoy it immensely: I love your videos
    (especially homecoming) and your pictures. You asked previously about preferences in stories; and so, here are mine. For girls, I find innocence, vulnerability, and a bit of naivete to be very sexy. Girls need to be girls, not superwoman. Men should be men, strong but gentle, protective and loving.
    They don't hit, berate, or disrespect girls, but show no hesitation in putting a naughty young lady over their knee and warming her bottom as needed!! Yes I am a male, ex linebacker and biker.



  3. Hi Enzo! Happy LOL day !

    To answer your question- i enjoy reading a man’s POV and there seem to be a lot more blogs written from the female perspective than the male’s.

    Plus i totally relate to everyday stresses and i often write about mine too. So thats something i feel we have in common.

    And i like spanking stories :)

  4. Hi Enzo. We are new here. Nice to meet you. Amy (and Eric)

  5. Hi Enzo, I have come by in the past. Been a bit slack of late though, so must drop by more. Love reading your point of view on this life style.
    Happy lol days.
    Hugs Lindy xx

  6. Enzo,

    I usually come looking for something to read and you never disappoint.


  7. Minelle -
    Thank you for visiting and commenting often.
    I am curious to know what types of differences you pick up on between women and men writing? I don’t really see it, but then again I think I am too close to my own writing to notice.
    Thanks again!

    Rick -
    Thank you for visiting often.
    That homecoming story (if we are referring to the same one) is surprisingly on of the most popular stories on this blog; not sure why.
    Overall, I think we agree a lot on our story preferences.

    Fondles -
    I have noticed that too, very few male bloggers out there; not sure why. As I mentioned in my response to Fondles, feel free to enlighten me on how my writing is different as I don’t see it.
    I think we do have quite a few things in common. Always appreciate your comments.
    Thank you!

    Hi Amy -
    Welcome! Hope you get the opportunity to poke around and read some of my stories and random thoughts and more importantly that you find them enjoyable.

    Lindy -
    Yes, it does seems like it has been awhile since you have commented. Always enjoyed your comments. Hope to see you back here soon. Thanks for commenting today!

    Heather -
    Glad to hear you find my writing enjoyable and thank you for being a top consistent commentator.
    Appreciate it. Thank you!

  8. Well hello Enzo, and happy L.O.L. Day :-)
    I typically don't comment, but I do pass by the site on a weekly basis. In general I enjoy the pictures and stories here.
    As for who I am? Ok, why not. 40yo male. Married, living in Denmark (Europe), single kid (born this year). The wife knows of my enjoyment of spanking, but it unfortunately doesn't turn her on, neither as a top or bottom. So aside from a few slaps once in a while, I'm left with the internet to scratch my spanking itch, so to speak.

  9. Kyrel -
    Apologies for the delayed response.

    Thanks for commenting and de-lurking! Thanks for the background info and I hope you come back often and comment as much.


  10. Lurking.. Female.. Mid going into late thirties.. Ttwd.. Inexplicable.. You are bookmarked but quiet lately.. Perusing back.. Loved the punishment meeting the crime on the wedding story! Tried to post back.. Lol. Hope she wasn't too late getting dressed as agreed upon in the weeks prior.. Easy to do.. Lol.

  11. Not sure that went through.. Sigh. Don't be a stranger! Post more! So far everything is delightful.. Relateable . Or exhilarating haha. I could use a dash more of that in my life, anyway. Cheers
    (Goes by Sphinx.. Not sure my last message went through.. Also anonymous on this thread, less than 15 min ago.)

  12. Welcome Sphinx aka Anonymous -

    Thanks for stopping by and especially for commenting. Coincidentally I just posted a story yesterday. Would love your opinion on that one.

    Glad to hear you liked the wedding story, but not sure exactly which one you are referring to as quite a few of my stories take place around weddings. Let me know which story it was.

    Thanks again for coming by and commenting.
    Appreciate it,


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