Thursday, October 3, 2024

Hello - It has been awhile…

Wow. I can’t believe it has been over a year since I last posted here.

Over a year!


Last time, right before posting, I did a preliminary “roll-call” / exploratory search of which bloggers were still around and actively blogging. I did not do that this time.

Why? Because every time I’ve been meaning to post I have been using that preliminary roll-call as a prerequisite to post and it has ultimately and ironically led me to not post.

Why have I been away?

No, it wasn’t just that roll-call task which has kept me away. So many things have been going on personally that
have all played a role in my delayed posts, plus every time I planned to post it coincidentally occurred with potential bad timing with national events so I held off longer.

Its a lot and layered and I’ll just wait on sharing all those things and details for another time.

To my fellow bloggers and regular readers I hope you are all individually doing well. If you come across across this post, drop me a line and say hello and let me know how you are doing. I’ll do my best to return the favor and check-in on you if I haven’t in awhile. 



As far as myself, don’t worry, fortunately (or possibly unfortunately, depending on your point of view), I haven’t lost my interest in spanking and the disciplinary arts. And although the reasons for and the required severity may vary, there still does not seem to be a shortage of girls in need of a good spanking. Well at least from what I see.

Which brings me to the second point of this post. 

I was having a conversation with my current girl the other day and she was explaining (arguing her point) that a lot of the young women these days have not been taught the same feminine "manners" (?) that she and others of her generation were raised on. I'm not sure if "manners" is the right word or not, but she was referring to young women not knowing things such as when to cross their legs, awareness of their dress hems, revealing tops, and stray bra straps, or not looking to see who might be staring when leaning or bending over - all these sorts of things. 

Personally I am not summing it up to a a generational lacking, as I have seen quite a bit of this "lack of manners" in my neck of the woods and it isn't solely reflective of one generation or age group. In fact, it is quite a few and almost across the age board, almost. I often see displays of uncrossed legs in cafes, bending fully over in check-out lines, sheer skirts worn by young moms who should know better...quite an assortment of examples. Mind you, I'm not complaining, I just don't think this is strictly unique to the younger demographic, although they are the majority.

 




So I'll leave you with those thoughts and these questions - 

Do you agree with my girl, that this is almost exclusive to young women of younger generations?

Or

Do you agree with me, that is is across a larger segment, although indeed heavy tilted towards the younger ones?

Or

Do you not see this at all in your neck of the woods?  

As always, yes, I'm here with the deep thoughts and probing questions that fill the back of your minds and keep you up at night.

Looking forward to hearing from you and your thoughts on this national issue.

Until next time, all the best.

 

 

16 comments:

  1. Glad you are posting again!

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  2. Hi, glad to see you back, Enzo. I think that my answer has to be that you do not see that so much in my neck of Belgium.

    Prefectdt

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    1. Thanks Prefectdt! That's unfortunate, I'm still wondering if and why it is more common in some places vs others.

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  3. That was me, by the way :)

    Prefectdt

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    1. I saw that and thanks for the confirmation.

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  4. I would posit it's a combination of both. Relaxed attitudes, changes in social mores, a loosening of "manners" or maybe that should be a deterioration, plus other things. I know a good solution to this issue however. :)

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    1. CEM - Changes in / relaxing of social norms is definitely a clearer way to state it, but I wonder if its an intentional change or simply a relaxed norm.
      And yes, I think we both know the solution. Thanks.

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  5. Hi Enzo,

    I'm glad to see you are still around. As for those unseemly displays, I don't see them often, except perhaps at Walmart.

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. Hi Hermione! Thanks! The Walmart versions are not the pleasing level that I encounter (thankfully). Haha.

      The more I ponder it, I wonder if this "carelessness" has to do with geographic regions and more common in larger metro areas?
      I live in a larger metro area. I do not know where you or others live, but could this be a key to the probability?

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  6. Hi so good to see you here. I myself have been having issues with blogger telling me what i'm writing is unsuitable for readers. my s-x blog is now a guessing game as readers will have to imagine what it is i'm writing about.

    as for your question, i totally see women sitting in any ol' fashion and bending over with tops and bottoms exposed. It seems it might be a more prevalent thing than i previosly imagined as the first time i put my hand to my neckline as i bent over to pick something off the floor BIKSS was rather surprised that I did so. He made mention of it, and i replied him something in the manner of "oh, i didn't realise it, i guess it's just automatic... " and he remarked that not many ladies have been taught to protect their modesty in the same way.

    I then started noticing it more and more. And it is rather unsightly imo.

    (I'm in asia, and i notice it more now than, say, 10 years ago, and mostly among the younger crowd. I would imagine, tho, that this is so because the older ladies find it rather too much a chore to bend over anymore these days... aching bones and such. LOL.)

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    1. Hi Fondles! Always nice to hear from you!

      I didn't realize that blogger was getting worse at deciding what is suitable or not. I thought that was the whole point of having to log-in and all the blogger content warnings. I have to catch up on some of your posts and see how well I can guess at things.

      Thanks for the confirmation that you've noticed it as well. I'm glad, in a way, as I was beginning to wonder if it was something happening only in my neck of the woods. As I said, I'm not complaining as I have been fortunate to see it primarily with a younger visually appealing crowd. That being said, it just leads to so many questions, including are they that clueless?

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    2. The answer to that is a resounding YES. Altho being a voyeur, BIKSS is always happy to spot a loose nipple, as he calls it. Sadly, he is not thrilled at how unappealing some of the mishaps appear. And he is mighty glad that I know how to practise modesty in public. Now when I'm at home tho, I walk around in my undies with my bottom showing. He's not pleased about that at all.

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    3. So I indeed I am blessed for I have been fortunate enough that the vast majority of accidental and careless upskirts, downblouse views, etc, that I have come across have been very visually appealing.

      I think we have talked about your choice of limited attire while at home. You are similar to my Girl(s). I have no issue with my Girl doing the same -- as long as, ready -- as long as I am there with her they are welcome to wear as little as they desire. However the rule is clear that if I am not around, the window-blinds better all be down… or consequences.

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  7. “ stray bra straps…” That’s a thing??? Who hasn’t seen a bra strap on every woman you have ever known? So common not worth mentioning.

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  8. I should have fully clarified that my Girl was referring to stray bra straps WHILE bending over which are often accompanied by (or aiding in) loose bras and ultimately leading to exposed nipples; not just random loose bra straps on an upper arm. Hope that helps clear things up.

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