Friday, November 19, 2021

LOL XVI

Welcome one and all, it is LOL XVI.

Yes, another edition of the yearly event with an all new twist because LOL is no longer solely “Love Our Lurkers”; but is now the all encompassing “Love Our Lifestyle”.

So what does this mean exactly?
I am not sure how other bloggers will handle this year differently, but I do encourage you to visit them all and find out!

You can visit them all via an easy blog-hop from Hermione’s, our official host, blog; linked for your convenience right
here.



As far as how I plan to acknowledge this event here this year, I’ll focus on part of what this new title, “Love Our Lifestyle”, means to me. Just a part.

To me it is an opportunity to remind you all that this is a welcoming place for those that share this lifestyle interest. You know the one - TTWD.
  • A reminder that this is a welcoming blog for those who enjoy the D/s lifestyle, but in particular for those who prefer their dynamic in any of its M/f iterations.

  • From general M/f relationships dynamics that exist as such, but aren’t often clearly labeled as D/s, but are in fact just that.

  • From those “unlabeled” dynamics, to the titled and clearly defined relationships such as D/lg or CG/lg. With the submissive side also possibly being everything from and including lg, to princesses and pets and even on rare occasion a brat.

  • And perhaps this is a most welcome blog for those who unapologetically enjoy the cornerstone of these M/f relationships – Domestic Discipline.

So now that you know where you are at – Welcome!

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In the past I used the opportunity of LOL Day for its original intent, to help persuade “lurkers” to come forward and say hello; while asking the frequent visitors here a question or two. 

This go around, I will ask all a unified question:

  • Do you simply visit here because it is just another like-minded blog,
    another
    friendly voice, in this overall shared lifestyle?

  • Or is there anything that draws you to this blog in particular?
    (Is there something unique that you read here that appeals to you)?

There are no wrong answers, just honest answers. And besides I'm just curious.

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If you are new here, you should take a moment to read the description below*** so that you are clear what this blog is and more importantly what it is not. 

Just as well, if you’ve been here before, a yearly reminder wouldn’t hurt.

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***An explanation of my Everyday Voice as heard here:

Welcome to this wonderful place that looks, sounds, feels and smells like our own everyday world, but with some distinct differences. A place where adult girls who shun their responsibilities, are made to pay for their offenses, where their entitled or arrogant attitudes are checked often and their bottoms are the primary focus of their penance.  


This is a place to see and hear of girls flushed to all cheeks with embarrassment and occasionally brought to the edge of humiliation.

 
 
Not only is this a place whose focus is the disciplining of young ladies in various clever and embarrassing ways, but a place to also admire and be in awe of the female creature in all her inner, outer and spiritual beauty; all in an everyday context.

Additionally it is a place where nature and synchronicity agree and conspire
with short skirts and sheer dresses to turn on their owners much to their dismay;
but to the welcomed entertainment and joy of those fortunate to witness such beauty.

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But, please don't ever confuse this place as somewhere where women are meant to be disrespected or degraded. These stories are a blend of fantasy and reality. Non-consensual discipline is for the young ladies who deep down secretly crave it; not something done out of a lopsided abusive relationship or anything worse. 

 However, discipline here is seldom random and never unwarranted. Well administered spankings are fully justified. The young ladies may seldom be willing participants, but that is the fantasy aspect right? I don't believe every story needs to have a "disclaimer" paragraph at the end that explains that those involved were in a prior relationship, secretly planning and consenting all along as so many authors choose to include. For me that merely spoils the entire story.

I hope you enjoy what you find here,
come back often and say hello when you do.


All the best,
Enzo

27 comments:

  1. Hi Enzo, I visit because you're a virtual friend and we have too few friends in this world, it's nice to be able to reach out and connect (on whatever level) with someone else who has a shared interest!

    Happy LoL day to you!

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    1. And thanks for the LoL Day poster!

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    2. Fondles - As you often do, your words just make me smile. Thank you for the virtual friendship.

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  2. Hi Enzo,

    I visit here because you are one of the long-time bloggers and I consider you a friend. You have always been so supportive of LoL day, and I thank you for that.

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. Hermione - Thank YOU for all that YOU do! And it is funny that you consider me a long-time blogger as I don’t consider myself one comparatively speaking with the close-knit group of other bloggers here.

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  3. I don't think I have ever popped in ..... but couldn't NOT pop in today on LOL day... finding like minded people can be difficult and it's so nice to just be yourself with people who understand :)

    Happy LOL day

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    1. MorningStar - It is indeed!. Please feel to come back often.

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  4. Stopping by to say Happy LOL day! I believe I have popped in before...probably on a past LOL day. :-) I enjoy visiting a community of welcoming, supportive people who love spanking as much as I do and who I can be myself around. While I do not read as much blogs as I once did (life) I love celebrating LOL day and visiting everyone I can. :-) Best wishes!

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    1. Terps - I may be confused, but feel like we corresponded in the past via a different blog perhaps? Regardless thank you for stopping by today.

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  5. Enzo - Hi Enzo. I don't always read but when I do I enjoy but don't always leave a comment. Thanks for providing the image.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Ronnie - I'm glad to hear you enjoy what you read when you do visit. Come back soon.

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  6. Thank you for your blog.

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    1. Anonymous - You’re welcome. Thank you for visiting and commenting today.

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  7. Hi Enzo -- I don't comment often, tis true, but I don't visit blogs like I used to. But I've always thought you were sweet. Thanks for your kind words and thoughtful posts.

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    1. Erica - Thank you. I do my best to be a honest as possible in my posts and comments. Always appreciate it when you stop by.

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  8. I would stop by more often, but I keep missing your new posts, when they appear on Bonnie's list. Keep up the good work and Happy LOL Day

    Prefectdt

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    1. Prefectdt - Thanks for stopping by. I am glad that you are back to blogging again more regularly now after that prior break. I've always enjoyed your blog.

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  9. Hi Enzo,

    I visit blogs in search of a new perspective on favorite topics - inspiration, insight, and additional questions to ponder. Thank you for all you do and Happy LoL Day.

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    1. Bonnie - Always honored when you stop by.
      I hope you find something unique and interesting whenever you visit here.

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  10. My blog reading has shrunk over the years. I know there are some great blogs out her that I'm missing out on. So today I'm taking the time to look around more.

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    1. PK - Thanks for visiting. Please look around and see if you enjoy any of my previous posts. I hope you find something to your liking.

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  11. Happy LOL Enzo. I have not visited since forever, but will try to drop by more often. I enjoy your blog. I am miffed by Google having to use anonymous, because I never receive feedback without having to keep tabs open and refreshing.
    bottoms up
    Red

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    1. Red - Thank you. As far as Blogger & Google they seem to not play nice with each other for some unknown reason; often times I have trouble commenting on my own blog!

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  12. Hi! Enzo, I like reading your blog page, I safely live on the other side of the world in Australia and I don't have a Top or Dom to keep me in line, but I'm usually good, ask Dev. Bye for now, AussieJenny

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    1. Jenny - Happy to hear that you enjoy what you read here. Thanks for visiting.

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  13. Hello, Enzo! Thanks for letting us use your image you created for the new kind of LOL Day! I don't know if I have been here before or not, but if I have, it's been a long time. So I will be looking around! Happy LOL Day to you! Hugs, Windy

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    1. Windy - I made the logo with the intent for all to share should they choose to. Please look around and share your thoughts.

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