Saturday, November 19, 2016

An Overdue post on LOL Day

This is me currently; literally sitting here at the table, sipping my coffee, watching and listening to the constant slow marching and retreating of the the rain.


Welcome one and all to LOL Days. If any of you regular readers are still out there, welcome back; I am still here. For all you new to this little corner of the world, welcome.
I have been away as you may be aware for quite sometime. Away once again with the constant of it being longer than I imagined or had planned. Regular readers to this blog are aware that I was undergoing a tough time due to the ending of a long term relationship. While I have been trying to move forward it has still been rather difficult to focus on writing.

Even without those changes, all this past year I have been struggling with quite a few things going on outside my personal world. No need to rehash our current events and or the uncertain future yet to come; but I shall summarize it all to say that one thing I believe we can all agree upon is that these are historic times regardless of our political and personal preferences and opinions. 

However I will address one point in particular I have been struggling with that is perhaps the most relevant to this blog.

In brief (for a long winded answer will only serve the purpose of you clicking away), my struggle has been a concern with the treatment of women in general. In relation to this blog,
my concern is the possible misunderstanding of how women should be treated based on misinterpretation of blog posts here.

This is something I have mentioned quite a few times; in previous LOL posts in fact. This possible misunderstanding, especially to new readers, plus
with the added political climate that appears to have opened a door for misogynists all might just add to that confusion.
Before I go on, and since people like to label others, let me define two words for your convenience in my own words:

A Misogynist -
Is a person who is often hateful, angry and has an open contempt of women and often aiming to belittle them.

A Sexist -
On the other hand, is the person who holds a door open for another stranger simply for no other reason than because she is a women.

In other words please don’t confuse me or this blog as a place of misogyny. I may be guilty of being sexist, offering to change a flat tire for a women often before even asking her if she can do it herself, etc; if so - Guilty. However, do I have a hatred and disdain of women - Never!

My point is that I question if I am doing a disservice to women with this blog -? On the other hand, there is this voice, my voice and those of others who share my views that on one hand you can still respect women and hold them on the highest possible, and yet at the same time be okay with pulling a woman aside, flipping up her skirt and yanking down her panties and putting her over your knee for a good spanking and all for her own good. These things are not mutually exclusive. I know that is a hard seemingly contradictory concept for the general public to grasp.

I will stop before I digress from the intent of LOL Day, but I'll leave you with this:


For New Readers, you may want to read my previous explanation, reprinted here and found below the break, of what this blog and the spirit of the the stories and opinions found here are meant to be. (If your interest is peaked, there are other posts where I explain my views further if you simply search this blog.)

For Regular Visitors, thanks for always visiting especially if you vote in my polls. If you comment, I appreciate it more than you know.

For All Visitors and in the true spirit of LOL Day;
Please tell me why you visit here or what brought you here and what about this place brings you back.


All the best,
Enzo 

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Welcome to this wonderful place that looks, sounds, feels and smells like our own everyday world, but with some distinct differences. A place where adult girls who shun their responsibilities, are made to pay for their offenses, where their entitled and/or arrogant attitudes are checked often and their bottoms are the primary focus of their penance.  


Not only is this a place of disciplining young ladies in various clever and embarrassing ways, but a place to just admire and be in awe of the female creature in all her inner,
outer and spiritual beauty; all in an everyday context.

 

This is also a place to see and hear of girls flushed to all cheeks with embarrassment. Where short skirts and sheer dresses turn on their owners much to their dismay; but to the welcomed entertainment and joy of those fortunate to witness such beauty.

But please don't ever confuse this place as somewhere where women are meant to be disrespected or degraded. These stories are a blend of fantasy and reality. Non-consensual discipline is for the young ladies who deep down secretly crave it;
not something done out of a lopsided abusive relationship.

 However, discipline here is seldom random and never unwarranted. Well administered spankings are fully justified. The young ladies may not be willing participants, but that is the fantasy aspect right? I don't think every story needs to have a "disclaimer" paragraph at the end that explains that those involved were secretly planning and consenting all along as so many authors choose to include. For me that merely spoils the entire story. 

I hope you enjoy what you find here and come back often and say hello when you do.

11 comments:

morningstar said...

funny I have been SO out of the loop I totally missed LOL day -- how is that possible??!!

So in the spirit of LOL day I thought I should comment -- and say thank you for the comments you left on The Continued Journey.

I am just a year out of a long term relationship with my Sir -- it's tough no doubt about it -- but trust me when I say there is something waiting just around the corner :)

Cat said...

Hey Enzo...Was happy to see your post come to the top of my reading list. I do visit but rarely comment. Hope you are feeling better.

Hugs and blessings...Cat

lindy thomas said...

Hello Enzo I come by and visit a bit. Love your stories. Have a fun if not late LOL day.

Hugs Lindy
DOWNUNDER DREAMING

Ni Na said...

Hi Enzo, I love the description of the young ladies who secretly crave the spanking they get. This is what most of us do like in this part blog land, isn't it? Well, obviously not really in secret, but there are definitely many women around here who do enjoy the good girl spankings and also the discipline when it has to happen. Well, I love the good girl spankings more, but would not want to live without the discipline either. And I would never think that what you write about is misogynistic. Besides, I have been very grateful in the past for a friendly man who helped me change a tire. I know how to do it, but could not get the tire off on my own, because those silly screws were too tight for me. So, thank you for being one who would help. I absolutely do appreciate that. Wishing you a great and Sunday and a happy LOL Day.

hugs

Nina

Our Bottoms Burn said...

I will hold the door for both men and women. I wonder what label should be assigned to me?

Leigh Smith said...

Hi Enzo - Better late than never. It's only courtesy to hold a door for anyone and I appreciate any offer of help - yes I am quite capable of doing things for myself but it's nice to have help.

As for spanking, that's what this little portion of blogland is all about, so I don't think we need disclaimers. If they're offended, they won't be back is my theory.

I love visiting here and reading your stories. I've commented on and off but I always visit. I'll try to be better.

I hope your heartache is lessening and that you open yourself to all that life has to offer.

Keeping my fingers crossed that my fears for the 'new world order' are unwarranted.

Anonymous said...

Hi Enzo! I am just visiting your blog for the first time - followed a link from another's blog roll of friends.

I am so very sorry to read about your relationship. I find your sharing your grief as a sign of strength, and wish you peace as your heart continues to heal.

As an American woman, I am so grateful that you posted your disclaimer. I have wondered if others outside of this world see posts about spankings and misunderstand these differences. Your explanation was perfect, and reflects what a true gentleman you are.

I certainly do not want to make light of the seriousness of the topic. However, you did add a little intrigue as now I will be curious whenever encountering those that I previously just viewed as polite.

I will definitely be back to read more of your stories, and hope you will share more of how you are coping. Please keep writing, and know your pictures add a nice visual element.

Wishing you all the best

ronnie said...

Enzo - I will hold the door open for anyone. Wasn't around the weekend. I do visit bit don't always leave a comment. Will try harder:)

Love,
Ronnie
xx

wolfman7446 said...

Enzo:

I have always found your thoughts and stories entertaining and appropriate. Mysogenistic? definitely not. There will always be those naysayers that will equate spanking to brutality and abuse but, the vast majority of the populace can easily see the difference between a warmed bottom and a blackened eye. I have spoken out for years against abuse.Spanking as depicted in your words and pictures just does not qualify. Please continue and understand that most complaints come from cowardly individuals whose sole desire is to anonymously stir things up.

Rick

Enzo said...

Morningstar - Thanks for commenting and a part of me really hopes there is something near.

Cat - Thanks for visiting and commenting when you do.

Lindy - So glad to hear you enjoy my stories. Thank you.

Nina - Happy to see you here Young Lady and thanks for sharing your thoughts and understanding.

Bogey - As do I, but I detect some subtle sarcasm in your comment; which is all good. You and I may not hold all the same opinions, but you are someone I imagine I can have a civilized discussion with over cold drinks. And to answer your question; not sure what you’d be labeled, but YOU would still probably be labeled negatively. ;)

Sunny - I am starting to think holding the door was a poor example. As far as offending readers I wasn’t so worried about those readers, as I offend many without trying; it was more so the ones who read my blog and get the wrong idea of what can be done without consent.
Thanks for being a regular visitor, much appreciated.

Anonymous - Welcome! I am glad to hear you appreciated my reiterating of disclaimers. I think you understood where I was going with the holding the door open example. Hope you come back.

Ronnie - Thanks for visiting and commenting when you can.

Rick - Welcome! (as I don’t believe you have commented before; have you?) Regardless, thanks for your words of support.

Anonymous said...

Women like me who get spanked regularly do not see this or any other spanking blog as mysoginistic! It is rather a place where deserving females get their comeuppance, their bottom is sore and their dignity is upset but they know that someone cares about them!
Sophie