Monday, September 28, 2015

Would You Rather: Someone Else Spank You?

everyday thoughts

I often wonder if it would do any good. 
I often wonder if it would get through to her more effectively delivered in a different way. 

What exactly are these thoughts that I am pondering you ask? Well, allow me to explain. Recently I have been rather frustrated with MyGirl to the point of exasperation. I keep coming back to a possible solution to dealing with her. The same unique solution keeps popping up over and over again.

Now mind you, most readers out there are probably questioning the obvious,

"Enzo, why don't you just spank her?"

Well of course that has been the obvious solution to deal with her ongoing issues.
But it is beyond that now. Well at least recently. 

Either I take it up a notch or change the parameters of the punishment. 

What I am ultimately getting at is to our –
"Would You Rather..." Question of the day.


Well let me explain further with a bit of a background story.
My Girl has a small business that she runs with a partner; a female friend. Her friend is older than her by no more than a dozen years. They share the responsibilities of the work, except the partner carries more of the financial weight of the business. This adds to a pre-existing unspoken natural hierarchy that exists with MyGirl almost being in the adult daughter-like role to her partner.

Long story short and details aside, something recently led them to have a following out over a big project. Well MyGirl released her ugly blatant ungrateful attitude during the course of the argument and her partner, a strong willed woman, called her on it. This has led to non-speaking amongst them and ultimately to misdirected anger at me.

So what I have thought about over and over again is
what if….
perhaps if…

What if her female partner took MyGirl over her knees and gave her a good bare bottom spanking. A full on, skirt flipping, pantie tugging, verbal scolding, counted out, cheek jiggling, ass trembling spanking! 

I'm already sure that her partner would love to do it figuratively, having stated at various times, amongst other things, that My Girl can be an entitled spoilt b. 

Would she like to do it literally, is the question; well her question
Your question is different.


Before we go on, lets get something clear dear readers. I don't share well. Well to be perfectly honest; I do share well. I just don't share MyGirl; with other men nor have any desire to, even in the most remote sense. So the idea of some other man spanking My Girl is not something I fantasize about.

However, my question is how would I feel about My Girl being taken to task by another women? 

Well in my book, it would have to be in such a scenario as I just described. Not a stranger, but rather a friend, delivering a well earned and well administered spanking.

Would I be OK with that? 
In that scenario; in that situation - 
Absolutely Yes!
With one caveat. I would have to be there to witness it first hand. 

Would My Girl enjoy it? 
Probably actually, definitely not.

But that is the point. 
It is a punishment served. 

Would she be more humbled being spanked by another woman? 
By a friend in fact? 
More than likely a resounding yes.

And given that option 1 over the other option, option 2 – 

The second option of me setting her straight by delivering a thorough, cheek quivering, tear inducing bare-bottom belting. 
AND throw in the added requirement of her marching herself over to her friend's house that same day and forced to apologize in person while her bottom is still throbbing.
Not just apologize, but explain how she was convinced she was wrong thanks to a leather belt spanking delivered to her unprotected bare bottom. Explaining how she was taught a lesson mere hours earlier.
With those options she might just take Option 1.


So my question for my female readers is:
"Would You Rather...

Option I:
Take a serious punishment spanking from an offended female friend
based on such a scenario as described above? 
An offended, angered friend who no doubt will be merciless, plus scold and criticize your pantie choice and ample bottom throughout the long process. To reiterate, this would be a skirt flipping, pantie tugging, verbal lashing, counted out, cheek jiggling, ass trembling spanking!


Option II:
Would you rather take the spanking AND have to apologize to your friend in person, in front of the entire staff, while your bottom is still throbbing from the belting?
Forced to apologize while standing at her front door, legs twitching in your heels as you are forced to stand in a short, tight dress sans panties; your aching naked bottom rubbing uncomfortably against the rough material of your dress intentionally handpicked by your partner. This plus having the entire staff witnessing not only your apology, but the explanation of your freshly delivered and well deserved spanking. Everyone from the tough handi-man helper, to the uncomfortably awkward errand boy, to the young bubbly female intern; all the way down to giggling Pomeranian pet. 

To be perfectly clear Ladies, neither would be an erotic-spanking or what I like to call "funishments." Rather a spanking inline with those who are into domestic discipline relationships and believe in real punishment and discipline spankings. 

So contemplate your options for a minute and let's play!
Cast your votes, but remember long answers via the comments are always preferred and appreciated!

For the most part, I can fairly accurately guess what the guys reading this blog points-of-views on this subject are. I know most guys into spanking think would be OK with these scenarios. Or perhaps not. I'll let you gentlemen vote too, just to keep the polls honest.


Anonymous said...

I believe a MAN should always spank a naughty woman. For humiliation is part of corporal punishment. And seeing her nude pubic area, breasts, and bare bottom, makes this come true.

Leigh Smith said...

I'd much rather be spanked by a man than a woman. I'm not sure about a public apology though - perhaps just the partner.

Anonymous said...

Just an observation - you said under Option 2 "Not just apologize, but explain how she was convinced she was wrong..." There's a big difference between really understanding and believing that you were wrong, and just mouthing the words because it's part of your punishment. How do you ensure that her thinking really does change rather than her just suppressing her thoughts and going along because she doesn't want another spanking?

Cat said...

Hey Enzo...I would much rather be spanked by a man, even if I had to go apologize with my bottom on fire. One note...Apologizing and explaining her spanking to her partner alone is one thing but in front of their employees? Not good...that would demean and degrade her in their eyes...very disrespectful.

Hugs and blessings...Cat

Enzo said...

Anon. - Thanks for commenting.
Although to be clear I didn't say the spanking would be done fully naked.

Leigh / Sunny Girl - Thanks for commenting!
Interesting, thus far most of the female voters are leaning the opposite way and choosing the spanking by the female friend over the spanking at home followed by the apology; I wonder why that is?

Anon. 2 -
Not wanting another spanking should be the initial motivation; understanding comes naturally afterwards, hopefully.

Cat - Thanks for visiting & commenting!
About your take on the apology & explanation in front of the entire staff – I actually added that detail in solely for comic relief. I had no intent of anything meant as fully degrading. Embarrassing yes, degrading no. I wonder what other blog readers read that as?

Anonymous said...

As a woman who has been spanked by another woman in front of my husband I can tell you how utterly embarrassing and undignified that really is! However I still think it preferable to having to confess all in front of all the staff!

Enzo said...

Welcome Janice - Thanks for commenting & sharing!
This seems to follow my initial thoughts that women would choose the spanking by another female over the full confessional. I wonder what about that confession makes it worse than the physical spanking?

Anonymous said...

Well in my case, although my dignity was upset and my bottom was sore only three people knew about the, of course, an older girl friend and my husband. If all the group of women to which my friend and I belonged had been told about it I would have been mortified.
In the scenario set out above the younger partner would not have wanted people who worked for her, be they older or younger, male or female, to know what the older partner had done to her bottom!

Enzo said...

Thanks for the added explanation Janice!
So goes with my belief that sometimes having to admit the wrong doing is worse than the punishment itself.

Flora Bertelli said...

I think having to apologize and explain the spanking to others is the perfect punishment. Humiliating yet very effective.